(don’t worry about the last picture on the left. i messed up while editing hahaha)
last saturday we went to sizzler’s (we heart that place!)but the line was ridiculously long so we went to a korean restaurant near by. i know the pictures make the food look pretty disgusting like a bunch of vampires got together and had a feast(with ana being one of them) but it was good. then we went to a dollar tree and had the kids pick out a few toys. i wanted a picture of ana too but she was too busy running away.
and this is so random but here are just a couple of my new year resolutions:
1. talk less when i’m out with my girlfriends.
2. gossip less. oh i mean not at all? no, let’s be realistic here!
i talk so much when i’m out with my girlfriends! I really do and i’ve realized i’ve become that old lady with kids who talk non-stop whenever they’re out in public. now, i don’t talk that much when it’s other people or with groups of men and women, but when i get together with a bunch of my girlfriends, i get so excited that i’m kids free and it reminds me of the old care-free single times that i can’t contain myself! i don’t get out much or get much adult interaction/conversation so i feel the need to fill up on all that i’ve missed. which brings me right to #2. since i’m out of the social loop-hole and many of my friends are single who are very much in the social loop-hole, i try to engage with them by telling them every news about everyone i know to prove to them that i’m still somewhat cool and “in”. mostly good news like so and so got engaged! or had a baby! but sometimes it’s not the good stuff(but it rarely happens i swear!). nonetheless, i need to work on that. i want to give every person a benefit of a doubt because i don’t know the full circumstance and i’m not in their shoes. what i see is just the surface so anytime i want to judge someone or label them as mean, arrogant or shallow, i’m going to try to say, “you know what? he/she might be the sweetest person who’s just really hurt inside.” and try to look at the good in them. because every person has good in them.
anyway that was my soap box. peace~
