It is my hubby’s birthday today and guess what his schedule is like today.
5a.m-1p.m- go to work to do bunch of crazy math to figure out commissions for Indonesia and Korea.
1-1:20 p.m- come home, change clothes and grab a lunch to go that I packed for him.
1:20-9 p.m- slave labor to renovate our home.
This has been his schedule since last week Monday. π and he tells me that every morning when his alarm rings at 5 a.m and all he wants to do is go back to sleep and the only reason why he gets the strength to get up at the wee hour in the morning to work a 15 hr. day is because he then thinks of me and Adalie. And then he realizes he would do anything for me and Adalie so he gets up without any complaint and goes about his day. How did I get so lucky?
Jay tells me that he’s never been so whooped and head over heels for a girl who was always constantly on his mind and people that know me well all know how crazy and obsessed he was with me and tease him about it and I do have to admit, I’ve never met or heard of any other guy who was so crazy and obsessed over a girl. He would go to the library on the 4th floor because he knew I always studied there and if I wasn’t there, he would start from the 1st floor and go up to the 5th floor and walk around the whole library hoping he would “run into me”. He sent me a Ralph Lauren perfume on my mission, his various passwords was my name, and this is all when we were just good acquaintances! There are much more but some of them Jay was even too embarrassed to tell me(he told me all this stalkerish stuff he did AFTER we were married. Smart guy.) and so I had to get it out of him and he made me promise not to tell ANYONE. hehe.
He never thought I would ever give him a chance and I even wrote him a Dear John letter on my mission after I received his gracious package and my mom has always told me that it’s always better for the guy to chase the girl and have him pursue and marry the girl of his dreams and I guess that’s stuck with me but truth be told, I’ve been as crazy about him as he was with me. Okay, not as much but you get the point. π
The first time I saw him, I thought he was the hottest guy I’ve ever seen and that is still true to this day. I referred Jay as “The hot guy” to my girlfriends. No other guy has ever made my heart beat so fast and so loud. Every time he would “run into me” on campus, I would get all happy and giddy and wanted to spend more time with him. When we worked at Nu Skin together, I always looked forward to seeing him and made work much more exciting. Every time I received his letter or package on my mission, I would feel flattered. When we started dating, just thinking about him made me have such intense butterflies and I would grin randomly just thinking of him. When we were broken up, I would drive by his house at night because I missed him. One time I even got caught dead on! That was embarrassing…moving on,
To summarize, he is my first boyfriend, my first love, and the man of my dreams.
To the love of my life…Happy Birthday.
Jihae says
Jay, just cuz it’s your b-day today, I’ll agree with Sarah that you are a “hot guy”. But only for today!!! π
Happy B-day!
Jon and Diana says
You guys are so cute! Hey I am coming to town on Monday the 20th till Sat. I want us all to get together!
Mibi and Lee says
Happy Birthday Jay!!!!! Love,Mibi
Kory says
I’ll admit any day that you’re a “hot guy”. Happy birthday bro.
Cam and Lohi says
what a lucky guy J. you guys are so good together. BIRTHDAY WISHES TO YOU from the tuiteles!
LeeRae says
Happy Birthday Jay~
Your dating stories always makes me laugh…^ ^
Anonymous says
Jay, i’ve been in love with you for like 20 years. sarah is a lucky girl π