Jay's Birthday

Remember how I told you I ruined Jay’s 30th and the 31st birthday?  See the post here.  Every year Jay brings it up and reminds me which I rightfully deserve I guess, but come on man, it’s time to move on!  Forgive and forget!  Anyway so now on his birthday, or the birthday week, I am extra sweet and extra nice to him.  And remind myself that every day of our lives only happen once.  And it’s such a waste of time to be spending the day you’ll never get back with any negativity in your heart.  

Jay’s brother treated us to one of our favorite restaurants The Trolley’s which was a pleasant surprise and we ate so much, we were all so full and so content.  Then we came back home to some ice-cream cake and after we put the kids to bed, we watched a movie together.  Every year I want to throw him a party and invite all his friends over but he always refuses.  So we spent the day low key, just the way  he liked it.

Marriage is sometimes difficult, just like all the things that are worth while.  But the bad times are only a few compared to the wonderful times we have together.  I am so grateful I have a husband who challenges me to be a better person, whether it by encouraging me by bringing out the best in me or downright annoying me and bringing out the worst in me so I have to learn to let it go and forgive haha.  But I love him so much and I need to do better in showing it in my words and my thoughts and in my actions.  Happy birthday Jay, I love you!