Oh hello. Don’t you just love it when I have my midnight ramblings about life? Haha. You can read Part One if you’d like, I get really deep and philosophical, I’m warning you. You probably hate my ramblings and don’t even care but I love it. And I care. So anyway… my title for this post is “Why I say I’m sorry to my husband first when I know he’s downright wrong and I’m dang right”. Now, don’t call me an angel or a saint because I can have some major sass and attitude and be the biggest brat when I’m angry, just ask my husband. π But this lesson is something I’ve learned several months ago and something I try my best to remember and implement when I get annoyed/defensive/mad at my husband.
What are your thoughts on this? Do you care to try it out with your husband/boyfriend/lover next time you get in a fight?
Beverly Houpt says
I love this. Thanks for the reminder! It's always better to just let go sometimes.
zahra al dakheel says
great post. i will definitely try to apply it every time we had a fight. thank you π
Alyssa Harris says
Great reminder! I have done it a few times and it is very hard to do. Thank you for reminding me I have to keep doing it and not to look for the apology first.
harmony says
It's definitely hard to be the bigger person and apologize first especially if you know that you ARE in the right and they've done you wrong. But you hit it – it's SO much better to be happy and be treated sweetly and live in peace again. Boys are dumb – so we women have to accept this fact and expect it in the future. hahaha, jk! Seriously though, most of the time our other half doesn't intend to hurt us…it just happens. So to sum up, i'll choose peace & happiness in the end. =D
Kristin Jones says
I always love your posts like this! I think I always write comments of support, but then get embarrassed and close the tab – but keep them coming!
Sarah says
Thank you for your comment! and I hope it works out the way you want it to be, I am rooting for you! π
Sarah says
Good for you Alyssa, you are awesome! thank you for sharing with me.
Sarah says
Hahaha, us girls are pretty smart, aren't we? π Thanks for sharing your comment, I hope you are doing well!
Sarah says
Aww, thank you so much Kristin, I'll try to write more posts like this just for you! π And don't be embarrassed at all, I love any comment I receive. π
ninasays says
Thanks for this idea! I remember having done this a few times in the past and I'm just now remembering that it worked. It's not easy to do though, harmony and Alyssa are right about that. Thanks for your thoughts! π