the birthday boy about to go to work this morning
It’s this sexy guy’s birthday today! If you were to ask me one thing I regret the most in my marriage, it’ll be that I didn’t celebrate his 30th birthday with him. Was I out of town you ask? No. I was mad at him because of some stupid fight we had the day before that I honestly don’t even remember. And guess what? I didn’t learn my lesson because on his 31st birthday, I was mad at him again. Why you ask? Because he farted on me and it stunk. So I told him to stop, but he did it again. Yeah…. TMI and pathetic I know but that’s the truth. I’d like to blame it on the fact that I started my period that day and I was very sensitive and moody, but I’d like to take the full blame and responsibility myself and own up to it. I was so lame. And immature. And just plain stupid. At least by the early afternoon, I remembered what I did on his 30th birthday and learned from my mistake and apologized to him and tried to make up for it, just like I tried to make up his 30th birthday by throwing him a big 30 and a half birthday party(see his 30 1/2 birthday here, 31st birthday here). But still, the next day I was like, “Did I really get mad at him yesterday for farting on me? Yes, yes, I did. Shoot….”
So I made a firm promise to myself last year that no matter what, I’d always let my pride go and celebrate his birthday. To remember that love is more important than being right. No matter what. Unless his fart stinks even more than the one he laid on me last year, then I’d have to think about it. Just kidding! Even then. But that is NOT an invitation, Jay Tyau!
I love you Jay. Happiest birthday to you. I’ll make sure of it.
Annie Bourgerie Janmohamed says
I've had this exact same fight with my husband. Many times. Glad to know I'm not alone!
Kristin Jones says
Ahhh, I love this! Stupid fights happen all the time and even though you may still feel silly afterwards, it still stung in the moment. Glad you were able to share so everyone feels normal and I'm so happy you could celebrate properly this time. π
Rachel says
Aww! Happy belated birthday to him! And it really isn't worth getting mad–though they can be so frustrating sometimes!
Sarah says
Haha, this makes me so happy you can relate! π
Sarah says
It really does sting at the moment, darn it! π
Sarah says
You are so right! thank you for your b-day wishes!